vest: sears (similar here)
shorts: h&m (similar here)
I’ve been feeling a bit “meh” lately. And I think that’s okay every now and again, right? Don’t get me wrong, I’m beyond happy with my little Samuel, and my sweet husband, and all of that is fantastic, but I’ve found my mind wandering more often than I’d like when I’m trapped in the silence of a moment. And I’ve found myself being haunted by events in my past that I wish I could escape from. But I can’t. There’s no escaping them. But then I saw this quote on Pinterest (of course) that just spoke right to me.
And it completely snapped me out of my funk. And I’ve decided to live with more purpose. I’m starting a new daily routine that focuses on making sure not only my baby and husband are happy, but that I’m happy too. And there isn’t anything selfish or unimportant about that. To make others happy I need to make sure that I myself am happy. And so I’m going to do what I need to make it so.
And just for kicks: the last time I wore this vest. Oh, how times change. ;)
Have you ever felt yourself in a bit of a rut? What did you do to fix it?
xo
I’ve never shopped at Sears but I do like that vest.
Yeah, I don’t really shop at Sears often, but I was pleasantly surprised when I found that vest! :)
xo
It’s hard to not get sucked into the past – whether looking back with fondness or lack thereof (especially when you are a first-time parent…that mess changes EVERYTHING) – but I think your plan is a good one. Stay focused on staying happy yourself and everything else will follow suit. :)
YES, it definitely is so hard especially being a parent!! I like what you said, too. Everything else will follow suit. Amen!
xo
That is a great quote, and I think it’s okay to not feel so great from time to time. I’m happy to hear that you’re refocusing onto the good things! xo
Sometimes you just need to wallow, you know? Thanks for the kind words! :)
xo
I’m right smack-dab in the middle of that funk. I just had an emotional outburst on my blog yesterday and I’m already feeling better after getting my thoughts out. Now, I’m focusing on fixing some things to feel better.
I’ve found that getting the words out definitely makes you feel so much better!! Good for you! :)
xo
Amen to that quote…The past is a place of reference, not a place of residence.
It definitely spoke to me!
xo
I love this so much. I had been going through quite a blah phase myself, and then one day something clicked and I snapped out of it. It is SO important to take care of yourself in order to take care of the people you love!
AMEN sister! Take care of yourself!
xo
I totally go through blah phases here and there. I agree – totally normal from time to time. It causes me to take a step back and figure out what’s missing. Most of the time, I find that it’s because my time with God has been lacking. Other times it’s because I just need more sleep or maybe some time for ME. Changing those things usually snaps me right out of it. HUGS!
You totally nailed it, Ashley. My time with God has definitely been lacking the past few months. It’s too easy to get caught up in everything else that’s going on, but it’s important to spend that one on one time with God, too and really focus on that relationship. I’m on the right track back to making sure all my priorities are in order! And I’m already feeling better :)
xo
Love that quote! It is so easy to get stuck dwelling on things that are in the past. So glad you are focusing on your purpose!
It really is too easy to dwell on things in the past- the quote definitely spoke to me!
xo
This seems so common post baby. Especially after you settle into a routine and your “new normal” (p.s. I really wish they hadn’t canceled that show!)
There is that sort of, what about me? feeling. Everything snaps into perspective but your perspective has changed. What used to fulfill you, just doesn’t anymore, or not in the same way.
At least this was my experience! And still is 2 years later!
I am trying to find the balance between being a really great, present mom but still feeling inspired, my desire to learn nurtured, and happiness outside the walls of home- all which I feel are so important!
You will get there mama! We all will. And then something will change and throw us for a loop. As is the nature of life. But that’s half the fun, right?
xoxo Jaimee
You really said it all perfectly, girl! It’s hard having to rearrange priorities and such a huge life change can do that, that’s for sure! Life really is about finding the balance. Thanks for your comment :) We can do this!!
xo
Totally get what you mean. It’s easy to get used to your life, as great as it may be, and get into a rut! I like to think about how my life was a year before, or two years before, and think about how much I wanted my life to look like it does RIGHT THIS VERY MOMENT back then- and than kinda gives me the thankfulness/perspective to snap myself out of it! Also journaling is huge for me- taking 15 or 20 minutes before my work day starts to write down what’s going on in my head (and sometimes write a list of things I’m grateful for) is a total mood shifter!
I love journaling! It’s definitely therapeutic! I’m a big believer in writing “happy lists” too :)
xo
I love you, Katie. You are beautiful and precious. I know what those funks are like. My heart has been all over the place, in a rough rocky broken place over this last month and longer. I’m trying to heal but it is tough and sometimes I just get in these awful funks where my past just weighs me down. Broken hearts suck. Funks suck. Bad moods suck. Hurting sucks. I hope you can do more things that bring you happiness. Wish I could bring you Starbucks & Chipotle & good cheesy movies and just talk and hang out. Love your heart and you.
Okay you just made me cry. Love you and your heart, Katie girl. <3 I wish we could veg out together too, with Starbucks and Chipotle, of course! ;)
xo
A rut, yes. Most definitely. So much so that I don’t even know how to put it into words and it’s kept me from blogging for a while. I guess the best way to say it is that being a new mommy is hard. It’s sometimes difficult to get others to relate to how you feel because your life has kind of stopped and morphed into something new, while their lives have just kept going. I’m naturally very independent too and it’s been challenging to convince those around me that i really do need a little extra help now that I have Rynna. But it’s all a learning experience and I’m taking it day by day. And although I’m exhausted and hardly have any time for myself, her sweet little spirit sure does help me stay positive. I’m so glad you’re able to make time for you! It’s definitely crucial.
AMEN to everything you said, girl. Know that I’m here if you ever want to talk to someone! Because you KNOW I understand! I do hope you get some little moments to yourself, though! It’ll make a world of difference, I’m convinced. <3
xo