As a new mom, with two under two, it is really easy to let my needs go behind everyone else’s. These babies rely on me (and my hubby) for literally everything, and it’s not only our job but our responsibility to take care of them. And sometimes this involves me letting my own needs and basic happiness fall to the wayside.
You know, like a shower? ;)
I mean, don’t get me wrong, being their mother is the most important thing I’ll ever do- I believe this wholeheartedly- but I’ve realized that to be the best mom I can, I must also take care of myself. A few days of completely drowning in motherhood taught me that lesson!
Life isn’t always glamorous (hello, spit-up on my clothes, blow-outs in my lap and dark circles under my eyes!), nor is it ever perfect, and it can be easy to get hung up on the imperfections, but I’ve realized it’s important to find the beauty in the imperfections. To find the perfection in the imperfections is something I strive to do, and to stop and really soak up and enjoy the small things.
I’ve found it’s just as important to take care of myself and have self-love as it is to take care of my family, and finding the balance is a constant challenge, but one that I am up to. And I’m slowly finding the little ways that I can do so…
Getting up a little earlier in the morning to wash my face and put on some makeup and a cute outfit always makes me feel confident and more productive during the day.
Getting in a shower (such a luxury for a mom, I know!) every day. That 5 minutes to myself is like a mini vacation!
Taking care of my hair and keeping it in great shape so that I can feel my most beautiful and confident self. I have been using Garnier® Whole Blends™ Hydrating line of shampoo, conditioner and treatment with coconut water and vanilla milk extracts. Not only do they smell amazing, but they leave my hair soft and vibrant, giving me confidence and making my hair routine simple and quick- something that’s very important for my busy life! I literally wash the night before, sleep in a braid and I’m good to go the next morning!
Getting in a workout every day. I notice if I miss a workout (admittedly, always because I was too busy with the kids), I am irritable and irrationally angry towards them! And how fair is that?! Not. At all. To anyone. So I make sure to get some sort of workout in every day, even if some days that means simply going out back and running around with Sam. Hey, I can work up a sweat doing that! ;) He’s happy, I’m happy, and everybody wins!
Those are just a few of the things I make sure to do every day to fill my cup.
What are some things that you do for yourself that make for a happier you?
xo
Debbie B
i enjoy relaxing with a good book
Debbie B
i posted a tweet here:
https://twitter.com/purplepanda1966/status/732391882739720192
BusyWorkingMama
I take time to exercise. It really helps me de-stress and relax.
Tina M
A long bath and glass of wine!
Tina M
https://twitter.com/HappyTina0115/status/732658429060321280
heather
I like to take a long nature walk to feel happier.
Elle
I take time to exercise which I enjoy and read.
Elle
Tweet: https://twitter.com/PrettyHotPink6/status/733081228753162241
Jeffrey
I love to run, it clears my mind and just makes me feel fresh. I’m much easier going after I get my exercise for the day. Many times I get back before anyone else wakes up and I fix breakfast.
Jeffrey
I tweeted: https://twitter.com/FireRunner2379/status/733459583713189889.
Susan Smith
I enjoy reading, It’s a great way to unwind at the end of the day.
Susan Smith
https://twitter.com/susan1215/status/733731290248151040
OFG
https://twitter.com/OneFrugalGirl/status/734020777515884546
onefrugalgirl AT gmail DOT com
OFG
I hit the gym at least a few times a week!
shelly peterson
I like to get away for lunch or shopping time.
cshell090869 at aol dot com
shelly peterson
tweeted https://twitter.com/cshell202/status/734171882291789825
cshell090869 at aol dot com
Kerry
Taking walks makes me a lot happier!
Cindy
I exercise four days a week.
Cindy
https://twitter.com/benz1171/status/735562906432081920
Kristen
I like to take off for the coffee shop with my laptop sometimes…..just me and some strangers, good music, fresh air and an iced latte.
Kristen
tweeted
https://twitter.com/rubylorikeet/status/736001595985399808
Tina W
Sometimes when I need an afternoon break I will take a book and go to one of my favorite places: Souplantation. I eat, read, eat, read, eat and read for several hours.
(side bonus that I probably get 3 days worth of vegetable servings!)
Linda
Taking a long hot bubble bath.
Linda
Tweet https://twitter.com/Lindiac/status/737026907758166017
kjasus
i also try to get to the gym every day. i get in a zone with my music and sweat. it truly recharges me.
kjasus
https://twitter.com/raggammuffin/status/737267093809332229
Whitney Bellows
I take a nice short nap after a long day’s work for me.
Whitney Bellows
I sent out a tweet: https://twitter.com/electricstar/status/737322112445120512
maria cantu
I do yoga in the morning.
Thomas Murphy
I go for bike rides.
Thomas Murphy
tweeted
https://twitter.com/thomasmurphy40/status/737416847037980673
Shawn Gallagher
I like to go out on the water and take on paddle boat and go fishing
Shawn Gallagher
https://mobile.twitter.com/Esham4life/status/737421196162142208
Betty Curran
I like to pamper myself with a nice long bath and a good book to keep me company.
Betty Curran
Tweet – https://twitter.com/willitara/status/737467137866895361
Faith J.
Usually a dip in the pool or a walk in the park
Faith J.
https://mobile.twitter.com/faithjacklynswe/status/737568290193608704
ANGEL JACKLYN
ENTRY #2 https://twitter.com/kytah00/status/737604384075321344
ANGEL JACKLYN
SPEND MORE TIME WITH MY FAMILY!
angie
I try to meditate every day for at least 20 minutes. This really helps me with my panic and anxiety and anger issues.