As a new mom, with two under two, it is really easy to let my needs go behind everyone else’s. These babies rely on me (and my hubby) for literally everything, and it’s not only our job but our responsibility to take care of them. And sometimes this involves me letting my own needs and basic happiness fall to the wayside.
You know, like a shower? ;)
I mean, don’t get me wrong, being their mother is the most important thing I’ll ever do- I believe this wholeheartedly- but I’ve realized that to be the best mom I can, I must also take care of myself. A few days of completely drowning in motherhood taught me that lesson!
Life isn’t always glamorous (hello, spit-up on my clothes, blow-outs in my lap and dark circles under my eyes!), nor is it ever perfect, and it can be easy to get hung up on the imperfections, but I’ve realized it’s important to find the beauty in the imperfections. To find the perfection in the imperfections is something I strive to do, and to stop and really soak up and enjoy the small things.
I’ve found it’s just as important to take care of myself and have self-love as it is to take care of my family, and finding the balance is a constant challenge, but one that I am up to. And I’m slowly finding the little ways that I can do so…
Getting up a little earlier in the morning to wash my face and put on some makeup and a cute outfit always makes me feel confident and more productive during the day.
Getting in a shower (such a luxury for a mom, I know!) every day. That 5 minutes to myself is like a mini vacation!
Taking care of my hair and keeping it in great shape so that I can feel my most beautiful and confident self. I have been using Garnier® Whole Blends™ Hydrating line of shampoo, conditioner and treatment with coconut water and vanilla milk extracts. Not only do they smell amazing, but they leave my hair soft and vibrant, giving me confidence and making my hair routine simple and quick- something that’s very important for my busy life! I literally wash the night before, sleep in a braid and I’m good to go the next morning!
Getting in a workout every day. I notice if I miss a workout (admittedly, always because I was too busy with the kids), I am irritable and irrationally angry towards them! And how fair is that?! Not. At all. To anyone. So I make sure to get some sort of workout in every day, even if some days that means simply going out back and running around with Sam. Hey, I can work up a sweat doing that! ;) He’s happy, I’m happy, and everybody wins!
Those are just a few of the things I make sure to do every day to fill my cup.
What are some things that you do for yourself that make for a happier you?
xo
I usually get my hair and makeup done.
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I like to spend some time by myself reading a book or listening to music. At times, my husband will take our sons out for the day and I treasure just having a little time to myself.
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Daily exercise and Netflix make me happy.
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To make for a happier me, I set aside me time to unwind. Could be a walk, drinks with friends or a spa day.
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Some happy things I do for myself are to go for a walk and lay out in the sun. I also love to hike and take pictures!
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I take a Me Day every now and then.
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I set aside time for a daily walk while listening to an audio book.
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I’m happier when I exercise in the morning before work or go for a long walk with my hubby on the weekend.
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I hear you about working out!!! I always feel better when I get moving.
I need to do more but I try to walk everyday
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I take care of myself by swimming 3 times a week and getting a massage every other week.
Thanks for the contest.
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I take time just to sit down and enter giveaways, this helps me relax and gives me time for me.
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I make it a daily goal to get 10k steps per day, and achieving that makes me feel good!
Thanks for the chance to win!
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I can go on a nature walk every day.
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I go to Crossfit to workout. It definitely relieves some of my stress of the day and refreshes me. It definitely makes me happy.
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Being outside always makes me a little happier. Even on days or nights when I’m cranky and don’t want to step out the door, I find that if I make that small effort, I’m always rewarded. Just standing in the yard and listening to birdsong in the morning or watching for shooting stars at night can lift my spirits and bring me a sense of peace.
I tweeted about your sweet blog post and the Garnier giveaway:
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Thank you! And I hope you had a lovely Mother’s Day.
Aw thank you so much Anne! :) So sweet of you! Good luck!
xo
reading a good book and taking walks keeps me happy.
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going to the gym lightens my mood
Today, I bought a couple makeup items from the drugstore that were on sale, and that always puts me in a good mood!
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I make a little time to do things I want to do.
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I work out.
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