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Here’s some truth: I’ve been down lately. Little things, big things, all of the things, they’ve just been adding up and I’ve felt just generally “down.” I think that explains why I haven’t really sat down to write anything meaningful lately- I thrive off of some good writing sessions. I crave putting pen to paper (err.. fingers to keyboard more like) and pouring my thoughts out. But lately, I’ve just felt drained. Outside of myself. Uninspired. Sad. And it’s hard, because I try to stay positive. And it’s hard, because I’m also so unbelievably happy! And incredibly blessed! I know this to be true!
And it’s hard, because there’s so much I want to say, but how much is too much? And what can I… should I… say, really? There’s so much I want to share, I know it could help a lot of people know they aren’t alone, and yet, I’m scared. I know it’s important to be vulnerable, and it’s something I try to be as often as I can, but. Something is holding me back, and until I get that “something” figured out, I’m not quite ready to share. And I’m sorry for being so vague- I love being open and honest with you all, but honestly this is important, and I need to give it time to be ready. And it’s not just about me, so there’s that, too.
In the meantime, I thought it important to share at least this: if you’re feeling in a slump, if you feel overwhelmed by Life sometimes, if you are down or in the trenches (of motherhood, of relationships, of work, of school, of whatever it may be), know that you aren’t alone. You never are. And it’s okay to not be okay. Give yourself grace. Lean on those around you. Pray. Really, really hard. I know I do! ;)
And know that everyone has a story, everyone has struggles, everyone has something.
And I’ll hopefully be ready to share my something soon.
xo
Oh mama, I feel like I can relate to you on so many levels. It’s actually how I first found you. I read one post years ago (via pinterest) when we were both pregnant with our sons and I felt like we would totally be friends (sounds silly writing it haha) but you know what I mean. As you said, no one is alone in their feelings. Whether you share it or not I hope whatever it is, it stops giving you such headache :(
Aww Sarah, that doesn’t sound silly IN THE LEAST. I know exactly what you mean. Every time we’ve talked and commented back and forth, I’ve felt the same!! <3 Thanks for always supporting me and being so kind. It means the world.
xo
I hope all is okay! But I totally understand where you are coming from. I just recently graduated college and since then I’ve been super down and depressed. Job hunting and adjusting to a life without school (something I have never known) is extremely tough for this school obsessed girl. I know it will all work out in the end, but I’ve spent the past two months crying every day and feeling super sad and anxious. My anxiety attacks flared up again and it’s just been a rough few months. The past couple of days I’ve been starting to feel better, and I only hope it goes up from here. But you’re so right, it’s okay to not be okay sometimes. And I just need to remember that! Sending you strength and well wishes in hopes that you too will start to feel better soon! xo
Oh, girl, that is SUCH a crazy and tough time in life!!! It’s such a strange in-between- I hope you feel peace through it all. I’m so sorry you’re going through these emotions- you are SO not alone! Thanks for your sweet words!
xo
I am so very sorry to hear that your heart is hurting. You are always so open and upbeat and honestly, it is OK to feel like you do. Life is full of ebbs and flows. It is part of what helps us appreciate all the good we do have from feeling the sorrow and the sadness at other times. Allow yourself to feel these feelings and not be too frightened of them. I promise this season will turn for you and your heart will be filled with joy and happiness again.
Sending you so much strength and hugs.
XO
I love that: Allow yourself to feel these feeling and not be too frightened of them. SO GOOD. I’m doing just that!! And I’m already feeling so much more at peace with my situation and keeping a positive mindset! Thanks for your sweet words, Donna!
xo
I recently began following your blog and have enjoyed “getting to know” you and your family. We all go through these things at times and it feels comforting to know that we aren’t alone. I moved out here near Sacramento from Pittsburgh and while I’ve been here for a few years, every once and a while I can’t help but feel sad and homesick for my family and friends back east. Just know that you aren’t alone and your followers are here to support you! Sending prayers your way!
Thanks so much, Holly!! That really means so so much to me. I understand that feeling of homesickness- there is nothing like it. Thinking of you and sending prayers your way, too, girl!!
xo
beauty!!! i had. i idea you and i were in such similar places this week!! i am with you. there are so many tough things about being an adult in general… that when something is actually off and you can’t get a solution going. gah. it’s draining. defeating. i am sending love and hugs and prayers your way! you are such a strong lady and i am always thankful for your inspiration.
aaand that was supposed to be “no idea” but thanks iphone ;)
You are such a light, Brittany!! We are definitely on the same wavelength… Lots of love and prayers going around! :)
xo
Hi Katie! I think your amazing! And I totally understand what you are saying. I just recently started to follow a couple bloggers and you are one of my favorites. I love how down to earth you are. I just had a baby two years ago (ok, I have a toddler now) and lost a bunch of weight. I was a little lost with new clothes. You have totally helped me rebuild my closet! I also live in Northern Cali, your style completely fits my lifestyle. That’s why I love it so much. Keep your head high and know that you are positive influence for me and I’m sure for other women!
Love,
Kim
Aww Kim!! Thank you so much for your sweet comment! You absolutely made my day brighter. :) You have no idea.
xo
Keep your head up! You have a beautiful way with words and when you’re ready to write again, you’ll know. I hope your something gets figured out.
As always thank you for sharing so much on your blog! ❤️❤️
Thanks so so much, sweet Shannon!! That means the world to me! :)
xo
Thinking of you.. I hope things start turning around soon for you. I’ve had some same feelings lately, and we’re going through some crazy transitions in our lives right now and it’s ridiculous stressful! But there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. ☺️❤️
Do not worry about anything instead pray about everything! Easier said than done sometimes, but you’re right that it helps SO much. Saying a prayer for you today too!
Yes, why are transitions SO hard?! I’m right there with you. Thank you for your sweet comment- it made me smile because that is exactly what I know my mom would say to me: Pray about everything!!! I needed that reminder. Thanks sweet girl!
xo